Who
doesn't need to spice up their bedroom routine every once in a while?
You love
your partner and assume he'll initiate sex, so it's all good, right?
Not so
fast!
Did you
ever think about what YOUR role is...what you could be doing to turn up the
heat?
We did,
so we asked renowned sex expert and family therapist Dr. Jane Greer.
She says
women COMMONLY make THREE MISTAKES in the bedroom:
Mistake
#1: Comfy Clothes
I know, ladies, that you want to be in those comfortable nightgowns, those
comfortable jammies, that you wear.
But,
honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse are your comfy
clothes.
So, if
you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and
find a nice, hot bra or a nice nighty, something you can be slinky, sexy and
comfortable in that will be a TURN-ON to your partner.
Mistake
#2: NOT Taking the Lead
Don't wait to get asked to dance, meaning you've got to take the lead.
You don't
have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them.
Get
involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you.
You'll
both have a lot of fun and enjoy yourselves.
Mistake
#3: Criticism
It's to be avoided at all costs.
Nothing
will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON'T like and
what you don't want taking place.
On the
other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know
what he CAN do to please you and what will excite you if he does it.
So, tell
him what you like, wear those sexy clothes and, most importantly of all, take
the lead so that you can have the fun you're looking for!
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